From Boys to Men with Terence Carfrae

by Nov 6, 2023

The Journey to Becoming Kings

Episode 436: In this captivating episode, we embark on a transformative journey with Terence Carfrae, a Men’s coach, mentor, and workshop facilitator with a unique and empowering message. Terence’s extensive background in multiple modalities, from functional medicine to orthopedic rehabilitation, has led him to a profound calling in the past decade: empowering men to claim responsibility for their lives.

The foundation of Terence’s philosophy is clear: the responsibility for a man’s life is solely his own. By embracing this responsibility, a man gifts himself, his family, and the world with an extraordinary transformation. In a world where not all boys become men, Terence emphasizes the failure of culture, society, and religion to guide young men toward their own truth and purpose. These institutions have often maintained a state of perpetual boyhood for easier control, but our world now more than ever needs these boys to become men.

“It is a rare man that becomes a King,” Terence shares, and this episode reveals the path from boyhood to manhood and onward to the truth of who one is. Terence offers profound insights into:

👑 From Hubris to Humility: The transformation from ego-driven hubris to the deep wisdom of humility.

🎁 How Anxiety Is a Gift: Understanding how anxiety can be a guiding light on the path to self-discovery.

🌟 Rites of Passage & Finding Purpose: The importance of rites of passage and discovering one’s life purpose.

👑 Becoming a King: The journey toward true manhood and kingship.

🤝 Abdicating Responsibility Is Not Freedom: The misconception of freedom through abdication of personal responsibility.

🌀 Transforming by Way of Surrender: The powerful transformation that arises through surrendering to one’s true self.

Join us in this enlightening episode as Terence unveils the profound wisdom of claiming responsibility and guides us on a path from boyhood to kingship. This is an episode that may forever change how you perceive your journey in life.

And before you go, be sure to grab a copy of my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book, “Becoming Kings,” at It’s a valuable resource to support your personal growth and transformation.

Prepare to embark on a journey from boyhood to kingship. Tune in now!

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • From hubris to humility. (1:55)
  • How anxiety is a gift. (11:16)
  • Rites of Passage & finding purpose. (21:16)
  • Becoming A King. (32:02)
  • Abdicating responsibility is not freedom. (39:14)
  • Transforming by way of surrender. (47:57)

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