Becoming Kings

Becoming Kings Podcast is for any man pursuing greater abundance and fulfillment in life, especially when he knows he’s not living up to his greatest potential. “What does it take to be powerful, purpose-driven and fulfilled?” It means becoming a King. It means doing the difficult work of breaking down the old masculine paradigms and becoming whole, healthy, and trustworthy. In order for men to move into this King energy, they need a guide. A way out of the old ways of being a man of oppression, repression, and aggression and instead, walking a path toward becoming a King; a man of strength, clarity, and fulfillment. This podcast is that guide and it starts here!

Mastering Resilience:

A Roadmap to an Emotionally Stronger You.

Episode 429: In this empowering episode, I explore the dynamic concept of emotional resilience, breaking it down into seven essential components that can transform your ability to navigate life’s challenges while maintaining your mental and emotional well-being. Whether you’re facing a specific challenge or simply striving to become emotionally stronger, this episode serves as your roadmap to mastering resilience and building a more resilient, empowered version of yourself. Join me as I explore the transformative power of emotional resilience, empowering you to thrive in the face of adversity and navigate life’s twists and turns with grace and strength. Grab yourself a copy of my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book, Becoming Kings: http://BecomingKingsBook.com/

In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • Episode 429: In this episode you’ll learn about…
  • The importance of emotional fitness. (0:46)
  • The impact of emotional resilience. (4:23)
  • Peer support. (8:50)
  • Physical resilience = emotional strength. (12:38)
  • Seven essential components of emotional resilience. (16:23)

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Discovering Biblical Masculinity with Jon Daniels

The Struggles Men Face as Leaders

Join us in this enlightening episode as we sit down with Jon Daniels—a devoted husband, father, and fervent follower of Jesus. Jon wears many hats: he’s a Pastor at The Pathway Church, a Real Estate Investor at Cloud Co Properties, and a Christian Male Life Development Coach under his brand “Fully Alive Men.” His mission? To guide Christian men in rediscovering Biblical masculinity, revitalizing marriages, and empowering families.

We dive into pivotal questions that peel back the layers of masculinity’s essence:

  • Defining True Masculinity: Jon’s insights draw on Biblical teachings to reveal the true essence of masculinity—rooted in strength, compassion, and leadership.
  • Navigating Leadership Struggles: We delve into why men sometimes struggle to embody unwavering strength for their families, exploring societal pressures and misconceptions.
  • Cultivating Healthy Masculinity: Jon’s multifaceted expertise empowers us with actionable steps to nurture emotional intelligence, enrich relationships, and reclaim healthy leadership roles.

Listeners will leave this episode with a profound understanding of genuine masculinity, equipped with practical tools for personal growth and relationship enhancement. Tune in to unlock the transformative power of Jon’s wisdom and experience. Grab yourself a copy of my Amazon #1 Best Selling Book, Becoming Kings: http://BecomingKingsBook.com/

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • Living on Purpose as a husband & father. (1:26)
  • Diving into Masculinity in Western Church Culture. (3:06)
  • Lead, do not chase. (13:03)
  • Learning how to become a leader in your family. (23:52)
  • Men are initiated into masculinity by other men. (35:21)
  • You’ve got to be a better man for yourself first and foremost. (45:59)
  • The importance of emotional tension in a relationship. (53:03)

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The Maddest Men of Masculinity w/ Kirk M. Samuels & Jason B. Kendrick

Redefining Healthy Masculinity with Two Mad Men

In this empowering episode, we’re diving deep into the realm of healthy masculinity with two extraordinary guests: Kirk M. Samuels and Jason B. Hendrick. 

Join us as we explore the path to redefining what it means to be a strong, compassionate, and evolved man in today’s world.

Meet Kirk M. Samuels, also known as the Intimacy Incubator. With a blend of strength, wisdom, gentleness, and mercy, Kirk is on a mission to co-create a world of intimacy and unconditional connection. 

He’s dedicated to guiding and inspiring one million men on their journey to breaking free from the grip of internet pornography. Kirk firmly believes that the foundation of the healthiest masculinity is discovered on the path to freedom.

Joining us alongside Kirk is Jason B. Hendrick, a multi-talented author, transformational speaker, Reiki master, personal development coach, and co-host of the Mad Men of Masculinity podcast on YouTube. 

Jason’s passion lies in discussions about healthy masculinity, personal growth, relationships, and the dynamics between the masculine and feminine energies. He advocates that masculinity is not inherently toxic and highlights the essential harmony between men and women.

In this episode, Kirk and Jason graciously share their personal journeys of growth and evolution. They openly discuss their ongoing challenges and vulnerabilities, demonstrating their commitment to constant self-improvement. 

Just like dedicated athletes striving for greatness, Kirk and Jason leave no stone unturned in their pursuit of becoming the best versions of themselves in this lifetime.

Tune in for an insightful conversation that challenges stereotypes and invites a fresh perspective on masculinity. 

Learn from two remarkable individuals who have dedicated themselves to dispelling misconceptions and embracing the interconnectedness of all genders. 

Join us in celebrating the courage, wisdom, and vulnerability of these exceptional men, Kirk M. Samuels and Jason B. Hendrick, as they redefine healthy masculinity and inspire listeners to embark on their own journeys of growth.

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • The Freedom Journey. (0:46)
  • The tension between trauma and purpose. (11:39)
  • Deeper dive into “legacy” (19:35)
  • You can be everywhere and nowhere simultaneously. (29:30)
  • What’re you MOST scared of in leveling up? (38:08)
  • Comfortable in discomfort. (43:26)

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Tips for Resolving Conflict in Relationships

Why gratitude makes or breaks you.

Conflict is a natural and unavoidable part of any relationship. It’s how you handle it that defines the connection between two people. Is your first instinct to shout and blame, or approach the issue with poise and understanding?

Imagine transforming arguments into opportunities for growth, turning heated moments into deeper understandings, and changing misunderstandings into clear and shared visions. 

And think about the little eyes watching you. What are your kids learning from the way you handle conflict? By modeling healthy resolutions and expressing gratitude, you improve your relationship and set a healthy example. 

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, join my girlfriend and me as we explore the uncharted territories of relationships. We uncover how gratitude can be your saving grace, why arguments can actually forge deeper connections and the profound impact your relationship choices can have on your children. If you want to turn conflicts into connections, tune into this episode.

In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • Vanesa with 1 S. (0:51)
  • Wash your mouth out with soap. (8:33)
  • Becoming great examples for your kids. (18:46)
  • Being “saucy”. (31:40)
  • Love requires courage and willingness. (44:09)
  • Modeling healthy resolutions to your kids. (52:34)
  • BFF’s for LIFE! (58:29)

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The Power of Daily Movement

How to leverage natural mood boosters.

The term “biohacking” might evoke images of futuristic labs or pill supplements promising instant health benefits. In reality, biohacking is an understanding of how our bodies react to stimuli, both internal and external. 

For example, going for daily walks in the sun is a fast and free natural mood boosting hack. Or take it up a notch by exerting yourself with a strenuous hike. And if you want a challenge, try taking a cold shower or ice bath for several minutes — it’ll provide a massive adrenaline and dopamine rush. 

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I share some of my personal favorite natural mood boosters. Plus, I talk about why many men find it challenging to stay consistent with new routines and what you can do to fix it. If you’ve been in a rut or itching to add something new to your routine, give this episode a listen for a few ideas.

In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • The one and only, with one S. (0:46)
  • Being active is grounding. (4:36)
  • Writing out what your perfect day looks like. (9:42)
  • Natural mood boosters. (14:44)
  • Find someone who will push you! (18:46)

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Characteristic for Creating Love that Lasts

How to radiate authenticity.

Love isn’t accidental. It’s a craft. Perfected with time, molded with patience, and sparked by authenticity. And the key to lasting love? Being genuine, being you.  Let the world see the real you. Vulnerability might be scary, yet it’s the birthplace of deep connection. Authenticity isn’t an option; it’s a prerequisite.

Alongside authenticity, your communication needs to reflect your true self. Conversations aren’t just an exchange of words — they’re an exchange of emotions, thoughts, and desires. By communicating authentically, you can rapidly build trust with others and find someone you can connect with for years to come. 

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I sit down with my partner to discuss the ins and outs of love, why relationships thrive on open communication, and how to find your true, authentic self. Tune in as we deconstruct the nuances of relationships and how you can enable transparent dialogues.


In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • Brand new “spanking” episode. (0:46)
  • Online dating requires thick skin. (8:02)
  • Authenticity wins. (17:11)
  • The wood burning fireplace. (24:27)
  • Trying to get to the goods. (31:45)
  • Trusting your gut and waiting is worth it. (37:27)

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Surrender Into Gratitude

Step forward while remaining grateful.

Take a moment and use it to examine your life. If you’re living in America, chances are your life is both comfortable and abundant in opportunities and resources. 

Yet, it’s quite easy to overlook these blessings. We tend to focus more on what’s missing, what needs improvement, or the future we wish to manifest.

It’s easy to get tangled in thinking about past failures or the allure of future successes. Instead, try focusing on what you can accomplish today. It’s the only thing you can change — yesterday is gone, and tomorrow isn’t promised. To achieve your goals, move with action, not just intention. 

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I discuss the transformative power of gratitude and accountability within personal growth. I also share how you can overcome the little voice in your head by focusing on adding one tiny addition to your mindset…


In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • Wisdom from 5 days in nature. (0:46)
  • Lack of preparation is okay. (5:42)
  • The power of beautiful moments. (11:04)
  • Slowing life down is a good thing. (15:17)
  • Remain grateful while simultaneously pushing forward. (19:56)

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Lessons Learned from the Lion King

The value of independence.

We often hear the term “abundance mindset.” For some, it’s an attitude of limitless potential, a belief in infinite resources, and a conviction in our ability to manifest what we desire. While it’s a pillar of personal growth and a cornerstone of success, a key part of the mindset is often overlooked. 

Independence is more than standing alone — it’s choosing your beliefs, affirming your values, and stepping up even when the crowd chooses to sit.  It’s about taking charge of your life, disregarding what happened in the past, and pledging to shape your future.

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I share a quick story about when I recently saw the Broadway show The Lion King. During the intermission of this show, I experienced something that can teach powerful lessons about what might be holding you back from what you want in life……


In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • The Big Apple. (0:46)
  • Taking a big leap. (5:07)
  • Where are all the dads? (9:21)
  • Are you lost, confused, unsure? (13:22)
  • How to heal your inner child. (16:50)

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How Alcohol Almost Ended It All with Kyronn Cordner

Conquering addiction.

Addiction can consume anyone at any time. From binge-watching Netflix to compulsively checking our phones and indulging in rich foods, you may be nurturing addictive habits. While those might seem bad, you can also get addicted to good habits. 

A daily routine of waking up at 5 a.m., hitting the gym, and taking a cold shower can be extremely rewarding, because addiction works both ways. You can do an activity to get a reward out of it. And transitioning your bad addiction into good ones is a simple mindset shift.

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I sit down with Kyronn Cordner to learn about his battle with alcohol. We discuss his cold turkey mindset, how a group of men can radiate power, and why you need to leverage the good addictions to defeat bad ones. 

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • Growing up in Trinidad & Tobago. (1:43)
  • Living the nightlife. (11:12)
  • Everyone knows, so why keep hiding. (21:39)
  • Believing in your dream and no safety net. (32:15)
  • Your blueprint for life. (41:38)
  • The importance of routine. (48:11)

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Martyrdom & Boundaries

Setting effective boundaries.

Often the wants and needs of others — like friends and family —  get mixed with our own. It seems like a noble thing to do. Putting others’ needs first. This leads to men not knowing what they actually want and need. On paper, it looks like your life is great. However, you might feel drastically different. 

Chances are, it’s because your direction and purpose are tainted. When boundaries blur, it’s common to lose sight of your goals and vision. What we often forget is how intertwined our boundaries and freedom are. 

Freedom isn’t an open field without fences; it’s a cultivated garden, nurtured and guided by your choices.

In today’s episode of the Becoming Kings Podcast, I share untold information about the intersection of boundaries, freedom, and martyrdom. Sometimes the best choice for others is drawing lines to ensure you fulfill your potential. Tune in to learn some practical strategies for implementing these concepts today.


In this episode, you’ll learn…

  • Deep thoughts while gravel biking. (1:30)
  • Boundaries. (4:56)
  • Freedom isn’t free. (8:40)
  • Men often don’t know what their needs are. (11:56)
  • Short fuses. (14:40)

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