The Six Positions of a Relationship

by Jun 8, 2020

Romantic relationships can get messy.

If you’ve known me for a while, or been listening to the show, I periodically mention that I’m divorced. It was one of the hardest things for me to go through, especially on the heels of losing my mom and my career. For a long time I looked back on my failed marriage trying to figure out what was wrong with it. 

As I’ve moved on, and mentored many different people and helped them through low points in their relationships and marriages, I saw that there were six different positions that a relationship can take on. And depending on the position that’s taken it can underscore different problems with intimacy, emotions, sex, etc. 

I believe that we all deserve to be happy and live fulfilling lives. Sometimes the thing that’s holding us back from that is complacency in our relationships, a nonexistent sex life, or love without the acutal love. To help you get out of these situations I want to take the time to teach you the different positions of a relationship, and how to ask four questions, so that you can start making changes in your relationship.

It’s important to confront the pain and do what you can to bring love and joy back into your love life!

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • The work never ends (1:30)
  • Why mastering relationships is fundamental to fulfillment (3:40)
  • The Six Positions of a Relationship (5:00)
  • Which position are you really in right now? (11:30)
  • Are you committed to having it all? (14:28)

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