Why Making Assumptions Can Wreak Havoc

by Apr 21, 2021

You know what they say about (ass)umptions…

Have you ever thought about how you deal with uncertainty? When we get nervous or afraid of certain outcomes these feelings start to drive our actions in really confusing ways. In the moment they make sense, sure, however in retrospect…

Not so much.

I’ve seen these behaviors come out fairly consistently when it comes to dating; which has a knack for pushing almost everyone’s “control” buttons. 

My buddy was expressing concern and making assumptions about how his budding relationship was going, so I sat him down and told him a story. 

A few stories in fact: about how I tended to blow up every relationship after my divorce because of all the assumptions I’d make. This time on The Johnny King Show, we’re digging into relationships, assumptions, and the perils of online dating.

In this episode you’ll learn about…

  • The Four Agreements. (1:38)
  • Ghosting. (3:22)
  • Playing that field. (6:23)
  • Suppressing painful emotions. (9:56)
  • Growth comes when the pressure is on. (13:19)
  • You just never know what can happen. (15:21)

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